Bringing Out the Dead
March 7, 2010
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IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: 48 hours in the life of a burnt-out paramedic. Once called Father Frank for his efforts to rescue lives, Frank sees the ghosts of those he failed to save around every turn. He has tried everything he can to get fired, calling in sick, delaying taking calls where he might have to face one more victim he couldn’t help, yet cannot quit the job on his own. |
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Am I being unreasonable/ rude?
I live with my boyfriend, and have lived with him for about a year and a half. Recently we moved from our apartment into his Great Grandmother’s home that she lived in for about 63 years. They didn’t know we lived together until we moved, and they still don’t know that we lived together at the apartment. Anyways, my boyfriend’s Great Grandma didn’t die, she went to a home, and we decided to rent the house since it was cheaper than our apartment and we could get a dog. Before we moved in, we had to clean the place up as she was blind and couldn’t see much. She also had a cat that peed on the floor so bad we had to rip the carpet up out of the dining room. We did various things to the house to improve the looks, as well as the value. One of the things that we weren’t allowed to do was replacing the counter top, as my boyfriend’s great grandpa was the one who put it in. My boyfriend’s grandma (not great grandma) was the one who wouldn’t let us do it, and started crying because I asked. I really was thinking of her as well as my own taste because the 35 year old counter top is not a selling point of the house and to replace it would bring more money when they sell it. I didn’t know what to do, other than to leave the counter top alone. She also wouldn’t give anything to a secondhand store when moving everything out, expecting me to want everything because it was already there. There were many times when she would cry in this process (remember, her mother’s not dead).
About 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend’s Great Uncle died. They can’t bury him until spring when the ground thaws, so they just had a memorial service. My boyfriend worked that night, so I felt almost like it was my place to go for the both of us. I didn’t go because I knew that my boyfriend’s grandma would be there, and the tears would be falling. It makes me extremely uncomfortable when she cries. My family sees funerals as get-togethers, we don’t stay in the past, we just joke around and enjoy eachother’s company. I feel like I should have gone, but I also think I would have felt extremely out of place.
Am I being rude to my boyfriend’s family if I don’t want to keep some of his great-grandma’s things and by not attending his uncle’s memorial? Does anyone have any advice about how to deal with uncomfortable situations like this?
P.S. This was also posted in etiquette. The more answers the merrier, right?
i dont think its rude , the womans old and her husband put it there ,so you cant blame her for wanting to keep it x
and the memorial , well if you knew him then yeahh go but if not then it dosent really matter x
Chantelle | Feb 04, 2010
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Wayne Carr | Feb 04, 2010
No I don’t think you are being rude. I can see how this is touchy. My bfs parents wanted us to take a lot of their old furniture (not really the same scenario) but it was gross and I wanted to pic out stuff to fit my taste. You need to tell them politely that you don’t have room for the furniture, maybe suggest helping them sell it on Craigslist. Also, I think your BF should be the one to approach them about it, not you. Tell him it is awkward and see if he can talk to them since they are his family.
Me time | Feb 04, 2010
Rude? Probably not. Out of line, Most likely. You are, as loved by your boyfriend, as you are, still just his girlfriend. These people, not knowing that you two have been living together for a year, see you as a fling. Just a girl that their boy is messing his life up with. Remember, they are from a different generation. One in which people got married, then moved in together. You, have made no commitment to their family, by marrying the guy, and as such, you are still an outsider in the decision making process.
Being unmarried, you have no stake in the place. You have no legal rights to any of it, and your ideas are of no importance to them. If you were his wife, they would hope for the two of you to be together forever, and as such, plan for the future of the house, as someone who could possibly inherit it someday.
If they want it kept as a shrine to the grandparents, it is their right. You should feel lucky to have a place to stay, for the year or two more that the two of you will probably be together.
Make a commitment. Get married, Buy the house with money you both share, and then do with it what you will.
I | Feb 04, 2010
Yes, you’re absolutely horrid. I am shocked that you even thought that it was all right to badger the grandmother let alone went ahead and did so! What is going on within that mind of yours?
You are a renter and you may not renovate the house without the landlord’s permission and you’ve no place evaluating its monetary worth - it will not be your house nor your money. As for the funeral, you were very cruel and selfish for not having attended. I agree with the other person, if I were your boyfriend, I’d dump you.
Swan Song | Feb 04, 2010
Hell no you’re not being rude or unreasonable. I think it was best that you left the countertop alone, but as far as the old stuff goes, maybe you should ask the grandma what she wants to do with it, since you ‘don’t have room for the stuff’, and see what she says. And as far as the memorial service goes, I WOULDN’T HAVE GONE EITHER! Why should you go if your own boyfriend won’t go? Work or not it was HIS relative and if the uncle wasn’t important enough for him to go, then why should the uncle have been important to you?! What is wrong with some of these answers that say you’re a cold hearted
b!tch to do what you’ve done? They are IDIOTS! I don’t blame you one bit!!! And Swan Song don’t be jealous because she’s got a bf and you don’t! You are a moron!!!
atlantis4569 | Feb 04, 2010
Lord of War
March 4, 2010
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IMDB rating: 7.70 Plot: This film charts the rise and fall of Yuri Orlov, from his early days in the early 1980s in Little Odessa, selling guns to mobsters in his local neighbourhood, through to his ascension through the decade of excess and indulgence into the early 90s, where he forms a business partnership with an African warlord and his psychotic son. The film also charts his relationship through the years with his younger brother, his marriage to a famous model, his relentless pursuit by a determined federal agent and his inner demons that sway between his drive for success and the immorality of what he does. |
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Con Air
February 7, 2010
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IMDB rating: 6.30 Plot: Cameron Poe is an Army Ranger who was going to go home to his pregnant wife when he got into a fight with three men. He would kill one of them and the other two ran away with the knife they had and because of that he would be convicted of manslaughter. After eight years he would be paroled. He would be part of a group that’s being transferred to another prison and flown in a special plane. While in flight a fight breaks out and two of the most dangerous criminals, Diamond Dog and Cyrus the Virus Grissom, would break out from their restraints and take over the plane. When the plane makes it’s first stop Poe and friend who’s a diabetic and who wasn’t given his shot, and all the syringes were destroyed, try to get off but Grissom wouldn’t let them. He then tries to alert the authorities but got away. Now the government is considering shooting the plane down but U.S. Marshall Vince Larkin thinks that it’s a little hasty and believes that Poe is an ally. When Grissom leads them on a wild goose chase, Poe alerts them to where they are going. |
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Air-con my 1988 Mazda 626 puts out cool air when fan is on 1 but if higher the coolness of the air soon ceases?
I cannot figure out why. It’s as if once the setting is higher, though the rev counter shows the compressor working harder, it cannot get cool enough to cool the air the fan is pushing out. I assume it could be a lack of gas but it seems strange that it works ok on 1. Last summer it also put out cool air with the fan set on 2 but the coolness faded when turned to 3 or 4.
you should check it carefully
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It’s probably just low on refrigerant. The compressor circulates the refrigerant throught the coils and the fan pick up the cold off of the coils and blows it through the vents. If the refrigerant is low, it the compressor can not the coils cold enough to keep up with the fan.
Frankie | Feb 01, 2010
Rock, The
December 11, 2009
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IMDB rating: 7.10 Plot: Stanley Goodspeed, who lives in Washington D.C., is a biochemist who works for the FBI. Soon after his fiancee Carla Pestalozzi announces that she is pregnant, Stanley gets a call from FBI director James Womack. Womack tells Stanley that San Francisco’s Alcatraz Island has been taken hostage, along with 81 tourists, by marine General Francis Xavier Hummel, who, for years, has been protesting the government’s refusal to pay benefits to families of war veterans who died during covert military operations. The death of his wife Barbara Hummel on March 9, 1995 drove General Hummel over the edge, and now he’s holding hostages in order to get his point across. Stanley is needed because General Himmel has stolen some VX gas warheads and has announced that he will launch them onto San Francisco unless his demands are met. Stanley knows how to disarm the bombs, but Stanley needs someone who knows Alcatraz well enough to get him inside. That man is former British intelligence agent John Patrick Mason, who has been in prison for the past 30 years without a trial because he was accused of stealing the private files of J. Edgar Hoover. In 1962, John became the only inmate ever to escape from Alcatraz, and he stayed out of Alcatraz long enough to father a daughter named Jade Angelou. Despite his extreme hatred of the FBI, John agrees to help Stanley. When John and Stanley are sent into Alcatraz with a Navy SEAL team, General Hummel’s men kill the entire SEAL team, leaving Stanley and John to work on their own to rescue the hostages. |
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